The Home-buying Process
Since co-buying a home is a complicated version of the ‘traditional’ home-buying process, let’s start here.
Why?
Over 85% of the groups we’ve worked with to date include at least one first-time home buyer—someone who has never been through the home purchase process, whether that’s a “plain vanilla” purchase or a joint home purchase (“co-buying”). For those folks who have experience buying a home, it’s a relatively infrequent occurrence. On average, the tenure of a US homeowner is over 13 years.
That means if you buy your first home at 33, you’ve done this 2 to 3 times by the time you retire. Mastering mini-golf takes more than three sessions. Putting a tiny ball into a hole four feet away is slightly easier than purchasing a non-fungible real estate asset. So it’s safe to say that anyone who’s been through the home purchase process a couple of times is no pro. And that’s just the plain vanilla version.
Home buying is “...the largest financial transaction consumers typically enter.”
In the US, the average home purchase:
- Takes six months in total
- Requires viewing 10+ properties
- Involves 12 professionals
- Takes 42 days for the transaction to close

Nearly two in three homeowners report that buying a home was stressful. One in four say they signed documents they didn’t understand.